English For Students

In the last holiday I was very depressed because it was difficult to choose the program I wanted to study science or social. Actually I was accepted in the science program but I thought there were many calculation and I was not good in physic and chemistry. But in social program there were many lesson that I didn’t like such as; economic, History, Geographic and another lesson. Finally I chose of science program. I thought in science program I could enjoy because the lesson was less than in social program, so I must think of important science lesson. Another problem I was very sad because I must separate with all my best friends from grade X4. Really from inside my heart I couldn’t forget all memory started sad, happy and disappointed. I always yearn for beautiful memory.
I always felt solitude recently until I didn't have natural appetite meal. I hate that I must adapt to new situation again and separated with all my best friends X4.This holiday I didn’t feel happy but I always felt sad. Didn't time of chance for holiday with X4 class. Nothing special in my holiday. I hope I can enjoy in the science program and new friends XI IPA 6. So now I prepare to be successful in the future with studying hard and praying.

Indah Arum G -XI IPA 6-14

Everybody knows, holiday is the best moment for all students in the world.
All students could have their free time, as free as they could. So could I. I had
a very interesting time every holiday. In the last holiday I went to Jogjakarta. I
spent my time in my grandma’s house. On Thursday evening, I left Solo to go to
Jogjakarta by train. I arrived in my grandma’s house in the evening. Then I went
to bed beause I was very tired. In Jogja I talked with my big family. There were my cousins, my grandma,and also my very cute niece named Abel. We just had fun and did
some relaxing activities. On the third day, adventure was begun. My big family
and Iwent to Ambarukmo Plaza. There, we had culinary shopping. On the next day, We went to Malioboro. Eventhough we only had sightseeing or window shopping in Malioboro, we got a good time especially when we were at Mirota Batik Shop. We saw a lot of merchandises. It was all about batik, jewels until house hold, All of them used batik design. Wasn’t it great? I always love holiday, I want it come to back earlier.
Amalia Ananda-IA 6-02

What's in a Story? by Paula Harris
I've always found that cross dressers and the transgendered love to read stories. But what is it about a cross dressing story that people find so intriguing?

It's certainly true that stories help people make sense of themselves and their lives. Through stories we share life experiences and try to connect and identify with others. At a time when advancements in technology allow communication on a global level, making friends with other like-minded individuals has never been easier. A story helps relationships to be formed and support networks to be strengthened and maintained.

With all the challenges and turmoil commonly experienced by cross dressers, many look to gain a deeper understanding of their dilemmas by listening to what others have to say. By learning how other cross dressers have dealt with similar situations, guidance and direction are sought. Quite often, words of advice are embedded within a story, for others to follow and learn from.

Stories form a means by which ideas are transmitted from one person to another. A story can often highlight different ways of doing things and alternative behaviour patterns. A fresh perspective can be instrumental in helping an individual get a handle on a situation much quicker than he would otherwise have been able to.

From the storytellers view, a story allows memories to be captured, relived and shared. Talking about one's life and any life-changing events allows an individual to give specific events meaning and purpose. In the life of a cross dresser, self-acceptance, coming out and making decisions about gender identity and transition are all milestone events. A story allows the expression of deep emotions surrounding these events and can assist the story teller in addressing issues that he may have tried to avoid. Often, this is a necessary to allow a person to move on in life.

A story encompasses memories from the past, an individual's take on the present and hopes and aspirations for the future. It allows a person to take a snap-shot of his life and aids acceptance of a new identity. One is then able to accommodate life change and be prepared for the challenges that lie ahead.

Everyone has a unique story to tell and by sharing it with others, we create connection. For so many cross dressers around the globe, the fear of isolation is common. By connecting with others through stories and other means, a much needed lifeline brings hope.

Paula Harris tells her own cross dressing story at http://www.cross-dressing-secrets.com/.